Faced with loneliness, in search of freedom
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But, different realm, in fact cloud of mud just lonely and needy, accompanied bored of the state; whereas loneliness is even being in such a big audience will still escape the Red meditation and calm lonely emptiness of product.; Loneliness is the spiritual home if loneliness is scars, then loneliness can be unforgettable memories if loneliness clouds in the sky, then it is the earth beneath lonely To relieve loneliness, easy:.. or call friends lead with; or Gongchoujiaocuo; or network fugue; or some Aventure …… and lonely is the religious right, money, and sex, the surface of the glitz and hustle prosperity can not conceal and salvation of the soul Taiwan famous psychiatric specialist Xu Tiansheng in. When talking about the right attitude to be held on depression, he says, ‘We do not want to depression as our enemies, and should be friends.’ So, by extension, should not be a lonely we have tried get rid of negative emotions, but not so that we caught the spirit of the prison hardship and despair, on the contrary, I would like to treat this as a sober, introspective mood; a face no matter what kind of life experience, can remain independence and integrity of the ethos of a personality, therefore, satisfied that Air Jordan 6 Wyatt alone, enjoy the solitude, exhilaration? Today, we are free to run into the web of overwhelming loneliness, but when Air Jordan 17 I look back, we have traveled hard to meet And so lonely Latest Nike Air Force 1 Mens All Winered Shoes back row, in this day and age, we lack is never fun, but the spirit of the Left Bank note: Here alone, not helpless, alone mean that loneliness is a person in a lifetime journey To be able to have time to courageously, quietly face the truth of their own, so as to unlock the shackles of life that most crude one – Freedom Freedom is the most crude one yoke Author: Danru busy people, busy feeling while always blame myself too busy love-hate relationship, but you really want them retired and sit, they will find a lot of reasons to myself not retired and sit for example:.. ‘! No way, I toil life friends,’ ‘hey, I get used to ! ‘…… really busy but once down, they actually uncomfortable, they began to ask myself:’? Now what to do. ‘I’ve been thinking about a problem: an attempt to keep yourself busy people, it is not because afraid of being alone, just let yourself busy when there is no space? Can fear of loneliness, it means afraid to face their own fear of true freedom. I have this problem? Yes! I have! I can not say I face loneliness It has been able to completely feel at ease when I’m often alone, but still busy, I do not watch TV, but I read constantly looking at the book that says something. One day, I suddenly want to put yourself a Newest Nike Air Force 1 Mens All White Shoes day off, not writing, not reading be great loneliness even hit me like a tide-like, I know what to do, feel like a ship without a boat anchor. I began to ask myself, I choose to read, write when a person is in the enjoyment of liberty, or disguise borrow reading, writing to keep yourself busy it? At this time of fear made me realize that I had been reading and writing by yourself to avoid loneliness, refuse to face their own, otherwise why I feel uneasy it?! ‘ do nothing ‘but stay awake and calm, turned out to be the most difficult because the fear of freedom, so we do not like to immerse yourself in the habit, his relationship wanton contempt bundle. If cut these chains, we How to make yourself calm down, to face the menacing freedom? Gibran said, freedom is human shackles thickest one. I do not know whether his experience is what I feel, I fear it freely and voluntarily become ? slave father of American national parks, John Muir describing the search for the flock of experience in his summer diary, written not just sheep, as well as fear of human freedom: ‘When I found the sheep and found them to be afraid and silent shrink together. Obviously they have been here for a night and a morning, did not dare go out for food. Though they escaped the shackles, but as we know, like some people, but on the free access of fear, I do not know how to do, but it seems very happy to be back to the original familiar cage. ‘because of fear of freedom, only to make us not want to live day after day over the day, or is not willing to turn but a bit ? children would rather give myself up to do a lot of people had finished a busy life, real life, free time, but very little I tried to stroke table cleared some empty when, so they have time to experience the fun of doing nothing – – I do not want to have enemies of freedom, to resist its goodwill visit ah!